Score range: 34-44 There's something genuinely good here. And you're starting to find it.
Your relationship has real strengths – and your score reflects that. There’s trust here, or at least the genuine desire for it. There’s effort, even when it’s imperfect. There are moments of real connection woven through the harder ones.
What Finding Your Footing means is that you’re in the building phase – not rebuilding from ruins, but actively constructing something more solid than what you’ve had. Some things are working really well. Others still need attention. And you’re aware enough to know the difference, which puts you well ahead of most couples.
The areas where you’re still finding your footing – whether that’s conflict resolution, emotional safety, intimacy or sharing the load – aren’t signs that something is fundamentally wrong. They’re the normal growing edges of two imperfect people trying to build something real together.
The couples who stay in this band and gradually move up aren’t the ones who have no problems. They’re the ones who stay curious about each other, keep communicating even when it’s hard, and get support before small issues become big ones.
You have the foundation. Now it’s about the build.
This is a good place to be – and there’s more ahead of you.
Your relationship matters. For over 20 years, we’ve helped over 83,000 clients as Australia’s leading couples counselling group. With over 230+ Hart Centre Certified therapists, finding yours is easy.
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