Score Range 25-36 You're not sure - and that uncertainty is completely understandable.
Genuinely Torn is one of the hardest places to be. Because the people around you want a clear answer, and you don’t have one. Because some days you’re certain and other days you’re not. Because you can see what’s wrong and you can also see what’s still there – and you don’t know which one outweighs the other.
Your answers reflect a relationship with real problems and real strengths existing at the same time. That’s not confusion. That’s complexity – and it deserves to be taken seriously rather than resolved too quickly in either direction.
What we see in people who score in this band is that the decision they make is less about the relationship itself and more about what happens next. The ones who leave and feel at peace with it are the ones who got proper support, explored it fully, and made a considered choice. The ones who stay and rebuild are the ones who found a skilled therapist, set clear expectations, and both partners did the real work.
The worst outcomes – the ones with the most regret – tend to happen when people make this decision alone, in a moment of either desperation or resignation, without the clarity that comes from real support.
You don’t have to decide today. But you do deserve the kind of support that helps you get there.
Genuinely Torn doesn’t have to be where you stay.
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