Singles Counselling

Singles Counselling

Get help moving on from your previous relationship and embracing all the good that life has to offer.

Professional Counselling and Therapy for Grief and Loss

Single and happy

We are here to help guide you through this sometimes difficult path. With all the different feelings that come after a relationship ends, it can be helpful to talk to a trained professional who can help you deal with lingering feels of anger, resentment, grief, sadness and more. At Hart Centre, we have highly experienced professional counsellors and therapists that can help you get back to a better place.

We have 170 therapists who specialise in Relationship Counselling at Hart Centre.

We understand that every relationship is different, which is why we take great care to match you with an expert-vetted specialist that understands your situation.


Expert-vetted therapists
100% Confidential
Satisfaction guaranteed

There are 7 stages we go through from the ending of one relationship to the beginning of another.

Please check out our articles on how you can navigate each stage, and don’t hesitate to call us and book in with one of our Relationship therapists near you who have trained  to assist you in each stage of the process from ending one relationship, through being single to entering a new relationship.

 

1. Breaking up.

How to end a relationship with consciousness and respect and with the best interests of the children.

Ending your relationship with respect and even a little kindness for each other

Important things to do for your kids when you divorce

 

2. Getting over your ex.

Beginning the emotional healing process. 

Managing your tumultuous emotions, and what not to do as your relationship ends

The 3 important Phases of grieving when your relationship ends

 

3. Learning and growing from your relationship.

Making sure you don’t make the same mistakes again. (Creating Post Traumatic GROWTH for yourself)

 Gaining insight into what has been your contributions

Identifying and managing your Inner Critic and Core Beliefs

Finding your Core wound: How you’ve been unwittingly setting yourself up to lose

Making amends with yourself and learning to love yourself

Identifying relationship skills and capacities for you to learn for next time

 

4. Being happy single.

Finding and reinventing yourself anew and making life rich and meaningful without a partner.

Taking deep care of yourself in all ways

Exploring and expanding your horizons and finding real joy, acceptance and fulfillment in being single

 

5. Becoming relationship ready.

How to improve your Relationship IQ

Determine your mate selection criteria (what you’re looking for in a new partner so that they will be a good match).

How you can tell if your new date is compatible with you.

Healthy relationship skills you are going to need eg boundary setting, understanding your own value.

 

6. Stepping into Dating.

Increasing your chances of finding the right partner. What to expect and do and don’t do.

How to attract the kind of person you want

Dating sites: Deciding what are the best ones for you. What to put on your profile.

Danger signs in people you date.

How to check that your potential new partner has what it takes to make a relationship work (many relationship problems stem from not having made a good selection).

Why am I still single? How to determine if you’re doing something wrong, or just haven’t met the right person yet.

 

7. Progressing a new date.

How to move your new relationship into a longer term stable enriching relationship.

Recognising the Stages of the development of a relationship.

3 Relationship keys: Being emotionally aware, keeping communication open and straight, and being proactive when small difficulties arise.

 

 8. Considering Living together or Marriage.

Pre-marriage questionnaire: Check your chances of a successful long term relationship

Often  it is difficult to do it all on your own, and you need some help to navigate some sections of this path for you. Our Hart Relationship therapists are specifically trained to help you in any of these stages and areas. Please don’t hesitate to call our friendly receptionists who can offer you the best therapist for you Phone 1300830552.

Hart Certified experts help with a range of issues

Therapists at Hart Centre can help with other issues that affect your relationships.

When you problems with your relationship, it is quite common for there to have been other issues ranging from intimacy and desire, to stress, trauma, depression, neurodivergence and more that are also contributing to the unsatisfactory feelings.

Many of our Hart Certified Counsellor have specialised training and can help address these secondary issues. That’s part of what makes our matching process unrivaled– we aim to understand all the details of your situation and find you therapists that truly understand you.

Why choose The Hart Centre for therapy?

Our rigorous matching and vetting process means we only connect you with reliable, top-rated therapists.

  • Expert-vetted therapists that understand your situation

    We only work with the best. All Hart Centre therapists go through a rigorous vetting process that includes ongoing training and continuous feedback monitoring from our clients.

  • Unrivaled matching process

    We get to know what’s important to you. From your schedule and budget, to your preferences on counselling styles, we take extraordinary care to match you with a therapist that truly understands your needs and fits into your busy life.

  • Satisfaction guaranteed

    We proudly offer a 100% satisfaction guarantee. If you don’t feel like your therapist is a perfect fit, we’ll cover the cost of your entire session and match you with a new therapist. No questions, no hassle, ever.

Our session lengths

Couples Counselling and Marriage counselling sessions are 50 mins
Cost: Ranging from $120 – $275

Further sessions are available in the same 50 mins format, or alternatively you may choose, 1 and a half hours, 2 hours, or 3 hours sessions.

We also have sessions available by Phone and Skype. After hours times are also available at select locations. Private Health Insurance Rebates apply, and Medicare Rebates may apply.
(please check for details)

Phone 1300 830 552 to enquire or make an appointment.

Read through our frequently asked questions about the relationship counselling process.

Hart Centre has helped thousands get back to a better place

After me and my partner had a session with Julian, I was so happy. My partner and I had attachment problems such as seeking attention with each other and always wanted to have time each other other. Julian helped us in so many ways that I was so thankful for because me and my partner today have been better than before. Thank you Julian for your help!

Chris

Friendly, efficient and easy to book and get the most appropriate therapist.

Thank you!

MZ

I was worried about being judged upon booking, making the first step is always uneasy. I was greeted with care and compassion and felt well heard by staff. Easy, simple and fast process. Thank you.

Lisa

My connection with my wife had become distant, which has led to a tense situation in our marriage, which was dangerously close to failing. Participating in Naomi’s sessions was the catalyst that opened our eyes to the fact that we never wanted to be apart from each other and instead desired to be together. It not only helped to save our marriage but also brought the passion back into our relationship.

JG

Very fast and friendly service. Understanding and courteous. Highly recommended.

RR

As our marriage was on the brink of falling out for one another, we decided to book Andy. With her help day by day, she has been giving us constant guidance through our dilemma. And here we are, open and accepting our differences. We are so blessed to have Andy as our therapist. Thank you so much for saving our marriage!

HR

Julie. I can’t thank you enough. To be honest, I got dragged along by Fiona, and didn’t think we needed it, but it gave me a chance to bring up some things that had been really bothering me, and now they are almost sorted. I would never have thought it could have been so productive. Thanks again.

Joshua & Fiona

I didn’t know how much my withdrawing was creating such a communication problem in our relationship. I have always blamed Karen’s arguing. Thank you for your unbiased help and advice. So good to know before we start having kids and things really start stressing us out.

Alan & Karen

Well, your questions certainly created a few heated discussions that we hadn’t had before. But I guess it’s better out than in. Because of our discussions, we know now where our hot spots are, and are working on them. Thanks for the insight. It may have taken us years to find them out.

Michelle & David

Very easy to book and the lady who answered was very helpful, not an easy call to make but she made it feel comfortable and easy.

B

Kudos to Brigette for having a great impact on saving our marriage from the verge of separation. With her counselling, our relationship becomes more intact, improving our daily lives and mental health. The stability that we currently have in our relationship is the result of her counselling. Our marriage will be like this with your help. Thank you Brigette!

JA

Our expert-vetted therapists from a range of health funds

ahm by Medibank
Medicare Accepted
HBF
Cua
NIB
Medibank
Australian Unity
Bupa

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Books We Recommend: 

Getting Past Your Breakup – Susan Elliott

Rebuilding When your Relationship Ends – Bruce Fisher and Robert Albert

Conscious Uncoupling – Katherine Woodward Thomas

Deeper Dating – Ken Page

How to be a Good Divorced Dad – Jeffery Leving

The Really Grown-ups Guide to Dating and Mating – Susan Alexander and Christina Taylor

Too Good to Leave; Too bad to stay – Mira Kirshenbaum

The Happiness Trap – Russ Harris

Relationship Value Cards – ACT Skills (determining what you’re looking for in a relationship)