score range: 0-11
First, the fact that you’re here, asking this question honestly, matters more than the score. Most people rarely stop to ask whether they’re ready – they just follow the momentum. You did something braver.
Your answers point to readiness being more of a not yet than a no. Some of what came up – uncertainty about the timing, things from the past that are still raw, doubts you’ve been pushing down, or pressure that’s driving the decision – is worth taking seriously before a step this big. This isn’t about whether you’re a good partner, or whether the relationship has potential. It’s about giving yourself the time and honesty the decision deserves.
This is a good moment to talk to someone. A relationship counsellor can help you make sense of what’s underneath the unease – whether it’s about you, the relationship, or the timing – without pushing you in any direction. There’s no wrong answer here, only a clearer one, and you don’t have to work it out alone
Your relationship matters. For over 20 years, we’ve helped over 83,000 clients as Australia’s leading couples counselling group. With over 230+ Hart Centre Certified therapists, finding yours is easy.
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