Your answers show genuine strengths. There’s real care here, and you’ve thought about more than most people do before a step this big. Alongside that, a few honest questions came up that are worth sitting with before you commit – not because the relationship is in trouble, but because they’re the kind of thing that’s much easier to face now than later.
These usually cluster around one or two areas – how you handle conflict, money, the big-picture life questions, or a doubt you’ve been quietly carrying. None of them are dealbreakers on their own. Together, they’re a signal to slow down just enough to get clear, rather than letting the momentum of a wedding – or whatever your big step looks like – carry you past them.
This is a good moment to talk things through with a relationship counsellor. A few sessions can turn the open questions into settled ones, so you’d go into this next chapter clear rather